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Sister Melanie Renee Girvin

219 High Ave E Apt 1

Oskaloosa, IA 52577

Emails can be sent to: melanie.girvin@myldsmail.net

Monday, July 30, 2018

Ft. Dodge Interveiws!

So, this week has been exciting! We started it off on Monday in Ames. We were on exchanges with the STLs there, and I was with the lovely Sister Newman! However, for some reason the people that I am comps with have been getting sick lately... Call it my curse LOL! But, we had to pull over in a Casey's parking lot (gas station, since the West doesn't have Casey's)ad she ran inside. And threw up ALL OVER because she didn't make it to the bathroom fast enough. So, So, we just went back to the apartment and spent the night. And in the morning, Sister Henderson, the other sister in Ames, was also super sick. So, Sister Dalton and I went home haha! And we spent the rest of that day stopping by the people that we are teaching, but nothing too exciting... But, Tuesday evening we got asked by the APs to go help out in Marshalltown with the after effects of the huge tornado that they had there.
So, on Wednesday we woke up uber early and drove the hour to MTown, and we were completely shocked! We were not prepared for how badly they got hit. Our job was mainly to help the people who were effected get help from the Red Cross and other people in the area that were willing to provide free assistance. And can I say, we left that place truly humbled. One lady that I helped was 7 months pregnant, and tried to run to her neighbor's house, but her porch got ripped when she opened the door. So, she spent the remainder of the storm huddled in her bathroom. Many many people were crying... So, we were there from about 7 AM to about 2PM, then we headed home and did our studies before we had our branch Pioneer Picnic! (Because it was the day after pioneer day) So that was a lot of fun, of course!
Then, on Thursday, highlight of the week! We drove up to Ft. Dodge to have interviews with the zone! We had a new senior couple join our AMES DISTRICT LOL, in the Ft. Dodge zone. Our zone has 3 districts in it, so we were there from about 9 AM to 4 PM, then we went out to lunch with the entire zone! Those are the pictures that were on Facebook LOL! Sister Dalton and I low-key got lost on our way, so we were at the end of the table by the elders that came from Peoria. So, to be completely honest, the people from the Chicago mission and the Iowans never really mixed... We just never took the actual time to get to know them. But, after sitting with them for an hour, Sister Dalton and I can now say that they are legit our most favoritest  people in the mission haha!!
Friday morning started out as any other morning. Woke up, did studies, and started weekly planning. And then the stomach flu that has been hitting everyone in our district (A couple elders got sick this week too) came to us, of course, and Sister Dalton was struck down. So, we had to stay inside. Then, early Saturday morning, I too was hit. So we stayed in for most of that day too. We were a bit anxious towards the end, so we went out and stopped by a few of the people we are teaching, but nothing too exciting. But then, our branch president texted us. Turns out, we did a pretty good job at giving talks last month, so he asked us to again! So we hurried home and started working on those, and then texted President Badger that we were speaking again.
Sunday we got up as usual. Went about our daily routine. And then we went to church. We were sitting in the chapel when we got a call from our favorite President Badger, who asked us what the church address was. Not 5 minutes later,  he and Sister Badger walked in. We felt pretty special, but also low-key terrified LOL!! But we did pretty good. At the end of church, there was going to be an 8 year old baptism, so we were planning on staying for that, but President was like Sisters, I want to see your apartment! We were like, okay, and we drove home, praying that the apartment was clean, since, ya know, we weren't expecting company!
Thankfully, it was! They said that it was the cleanest one they have ever spontaneously gone to! So, we are so grateful that 1, both of us know how to clean, and 2, that we had been sick, and therefore, had time to clean!
The rest of the day was good. We went and stopped by a few referrals, but no one was home. We were starting to get a little discouraged when I saw a guy riding his bike down the road, and he was wearing a pretty legit fanny pack! So, I told him so, and he laughed, and we realized he was friendly, so we went and talked to him. We will now be teaching Daniel and his family :) Probably my favorite part of missionary work is finding new people to teach. When you first tell them about the message of the Restored Gospel. The process in finding those people isn't easy... Sometimes you knock on a hundred doors, get called very rude names, get screamed at, and sometimes even get bitten by animals before you find one person! But we are promised that great will be our joy in the next life for bringing but ONE soul unto Christ, which must be unimaginable if it is better than seeing a new sense of hope fill the lives of those we meet. I LOVE MISSIONARY WORK!!

 My giant buddies on a wall...

Me and Sister Dalton in the Church famous helping hands shirts!

My favorite companion, Sister Dalton's 20th birthday is next week!! And she loves packages ;)

Thursday, July 26, 2018

Posts and Texts


 Text on July 25, 2018
Multi-Agency Resource Center in Marshalltown Iowa.
Helping out after the EF 3 tornado that hit June 19th.

Facebook Posts 7/26/2018
Fort Dodge District
Lunch after Interviews


Monday, July 23, 2018

The Near Tornado-Proposal

July 23, 2018

Hey everyone! Hope y'all had as fantastic a week as I did!
So, on Monday, we went on exchanges, and I went with the fabulous Sister Henderson!

She served in Story City a year ago, so she was excited to be back and see all the members from the branch! 
Not too much happened while on exchanges... mainly a lot of knocking. Sister Dalton and Sister Newman found a new person to teach for us! Her name is Adrianna, and she and her family have been looking for a church! And, well, we have a church :)
On Wednesday, Sister Dalton still had not been feeling better, just a lot of coughing and sneezing and headaches. So the mission nurse sent us back to our favorite place ever... The Urgent Care! But this time, she told us not to leave until they came up for a real solution as to why she is sick... And they did. She is allergic to Iowa. That is the simplest way to say it LOL! So they gave her some allergy pills and an inhaler and sent us on our way! 
So we decided to go knock a small town about half an hour from Story City called Radcliffe. On our way there though, we passed probably the smallest town in existence... 

It is called 'Christytown', and has a population of 46. Literally just one street. Blink and it is gone. We thought it was pretty funny...
Anyway, in Radcliffe we did a little knocking. And one door that we knocked on, a lady named Sabrina came out. She was immediately like 'hey, I was going to call you guys! I've just been so busy!' and went on to talk about her problems. So, we asked if she met with missionaries before, and she said yes! Then, she called out her 10 year old son, Malachi. She said that she was reading the Book of Mormon one day, and he had a lot of questions about it! And so we answered them, of course. We were about to leave, and we set up a return appointment for Thursday, but then her husband stuck his head out the door and was like 'How about Saturday? I have work on Thursday.' So we decided to come back on Saturday.
Then Thursday hit! We went to district council (We aren't allowed to call them meetings anymore. Kinda weird, but okay) While there, we got a text from an unsaved number. we asked who it was, and his reply was 'a friend of the church of latter-day Saints. Who are you?' We thought that was a weird way to introduce yourself, and he must not be a member, since he said the name of the church wrong, so we replied that we were the missionaries. A few texts later and a phone call, we had found ourselves another person to teach! Then we asked where he lived... And he lives in Ft. Dodge. So, now the Elders are teaching him, but they say that he is awesome! Then we went home around 4:00 to grab some things. Not long after we walked into the apartment, the sky went pretty dark... And a couple seconds later the tornado alarms started going off. So, we were instructed to stay inside (we live in a basement, so we were safe)There was a tornado in Story City, but it didn't touch down. It went more towards the east of us, and hit Roland, and then continued on to Marshalltown, which got pretty demolished. Photo Cred goes to Sister Manning, an amazing member of the branch who was keeping us updated, and to a news station LOL



Then Friday! We spent most of the day inside weekly planning, and then we went to an appointment with Tonya. She has been flaky lately, but we were finally able to talk with her. Not sure what we are going to do about her...
And Saturday! We spent the morning in Ames for a carnival!! We were asked to help out. And then we went back and tried to see Sabrina, but turns out there was a rodeo going on in Radcliffe, so we had to reschedule that! Then we headed back to Story City to knock around a little bit, when we got a text from one of the people we are teaching... He asked us if we could come over to visit him. We were like, yeah, of course! We knew that this person was going through a rough time and hadn't been able to come to church recently because of it, so we were hoping that he would tell us the story behind it. We show up, and he was SO HIGH!! We felt like maybe we should go, but he started talking. Told us that the real reason that he has been so depressed is because he is 45, and doesn't have a wife or a girlfriend. He kept asking us if we were married, and we kept telling him no, we are focusing on Jesus right now! But he wasn't catching on. Anyway, super awkward conversation of him talking about girlfriends and such for an hour and a half, and we were trying to tell him that we would come back later (when he wasn't on drugs) when he said, "Melanie, you are great with God. I always wanted to be with a Spiritual person." and then to Sister Dalton, "Sydney, you and the sunset is the most beautiful picture in my mind" Yes, he used our first names. Thank you Facebook. Then, he turned on some super romantic music and we were like "Okay, bye!" And turned and ran away. Then, we called our Zone Leaders to tell them, and they told us not to go back. So, yeah. We are fairly certain if we had stayed another second a marriage proposal would have been the next thing out of his mouth. So, how was your Saturday? LOL
And then Sunday. We were low-key dreading that this person would come to church, because that would be uber awkward, but he didn't. And Mike is still sick with a stomach virus, so he wasn't able to come either. Not too much else happened on Sunday... But it was a great day because of the Sacrament!

Monday, July 16, 2018

More Sickness :/

Well, this week has definitely been a long one! On Monday, we went to p-day in Ames with the rest of our zone. I got to play basketball again, which was fun! Last transfer I was always sick or tired, so I didn't... But, I did this time, and it was great! However, I forgot to bring tennis shoes, and it is hard to play in flats... So I played barefoot and got stepped on LOL! Got a gnarly bruise haha!

Then Tuesday hit... Sister Dalton hadn't gotten better from being sick before, so we had to go back to the urgent care. And, she has yet another virus! So, she was prescribed with... more sleep. So, back to being grounded LOL. But, we had a lesson that night that we REALLY did not want to miss, so we went. His name is Mike. And he is just the greatest! We taught the 10 commandments, and on the adultery one, the Law of Chastity came up, so we taught that lesson too, and he accepted it great! And, there is one lesson that we have been a little iffy on teaching him... and that is the Word of Wisdom, because we knew that he chews. And, at the end of the lesson, he pulls the can out of his pocket, and said "Now, what do Mormons think about this?" Sister Dalton and I looked at each other, and I said, "Well, that is another lesson. Called the Word of Wisdom." And we went on to teach that! We found out that he had stopped drinking and smoking on his own, and that he was struggling giving up the chew, but that he had gotten down to one can every month and a half! And he really wanted to quit, and had been trying for a long time. So, we offered to teach the Stop Smoking Workshop, and he said yes for after he gets back from Utah! So just another example of Satan trying to scare us away from teaching the Gospel, and yet another example of Christ winning!

So then Wednesday. We stayed in for a while, but then decided to go knocking because we were bored. And we found 2 new investigators! Who also only speak Spanish! But, our good friend, Google Translate, came to the rescue and we were able to set up a return appointment. Then, we went back home and watched the Testaments in Spanish, because Mike is our only investigator that knows English, sooo...

And Thursday! We stayed in for most of the day again, until the Ames sisters decided that they really wanted to come to Dairy Queen LOL, so we went out to lunch with them. And then, a member called us! She had signed up to feed us, but then remembered that there was a BBQ going on in the Hampton Branch, so... We went there! The elders there were super surprised to see us, but we had a good talk about investigators. They also have a problem... They have 10 investigators, but none of the speak Spanish. Why is that a problem? They are Spanish Elders, sooo... Yeah. We should probs change branches LOL!!

On Friday, we went to Des Moines! It was crazy! We needed to talk to President and Sister Badger, and then afterwards decided to go to the capital because we have heard so much about it. And let me just say, Iowa drivers be crazy!! It was an adventure! 

Then on Saturday, we had district meeting in Ames! And, the APs decided to randomly show up, so that made everything stressful LOL! But it was fun, and we went to see Erick afterwards. Erick isn't so sure about coming to church anymore, which is really sad, because church is awesome, and the most effective way of learning how to come closer to Christ, so we had a talk about that.

And on Sunday... Hmm... No one came to church, which is always super sad. And, as we were in Des Moines and Ames Friday and Saturday, we did not weekly plan! So we stayed inside most of the day doing that.

Sorry, not a very eventful week LOL!


The Ellsworth Fire Department Bus LOL!



Monday, July 9, 2018

Story City DUO!!!

 So, to start off, let me play little conversation we had with President Badger on Monday...
us: President, we feel like we have received a revelation that the area is being closed...
Pres.: Sisters, I have no idea why you would receive a revelation like that.
us: So... No?
Pres.: No. Story City is not getting closed. But, some big changes are going to be happening... maybe that is why you are getting that feeling.

Or, another conversation that Sister Dalton had with President Badger over email...
Sis D: President, can Sister Girvin and I serve together another transfer?
Pres: Sister Dalton, sometimes the Lord has higher plans for us than what we want.

So, we were all three freaking out, and we packed all our stuff, thinking that we were going to get pinkwashed or whitewashed out... And then we waited, worried and stressed out, until Tuesday. Then, we stressed more. WHAT WAS HAPPENING?!?!
Finally, at about noon, one of the assistants called us, and he gave us the news...
Sister Rath packed her bags and headed to pinkwash Mt. Pleasant with Sister Back...
And I got.... Sister Dalton!!


Again LOL! She's my favorite tho, so that's alright!! (Elder Clayson photobombed our punk pic...)
When you go to the store... Just to buy corn... #areweIowans​

What Elders really do on p-day... LOL

Sister Dalton got tired of having black hair...

So, Happy Fourth of July as well! We had a blast... We went to a parade in Ames... We as in our entire zone. As we were walking down the sidewalk, everyone was staring at us. Sister Dalton leaned over and was like 'Little do they know, the parade already started!' A huge group of people all dressed up is a little different I guess LOL

Us at the parade!! starting from the top... Elders Christensen, Diaz-Pacheco, and Richardson, middle row, Elder Thomas, Peterson, Westover, Ostergaard, and Davis, and the front, Elders Esplin,  Shoeneman, and Fox, me, and Sisters Newman, Dalton, and Rath (and Sister Garrard hiding around the corner)


Sister Dalton's mom sent us some fun Fourth of July toys!!

Ames famous flag wall..
back row, sisters Rath, Dalton, and Garrard, Elders Fox, Shoeneman, Peterson, Thomas, and Ostergaard, front row, me, Sister Newman, and Elders Davis, Esplin, and Westover

A member in the Ames ward owns the Great Harvest Bakery... So missionaries get free food.

When you ask an Elder to take a picture... featuring Elder Thomas

When Elder Christensen REALLY wants to be 'nosey' LOL #photobombed​

Matching T-shirts!!

Just because...

​​So, we unpacked, and Sister Rath finished packing, and bright and early Thursday morning we drove her to Des Moines so she could catch the bus to Iowa City. It was so sad to see her off!
Then, we went home and took a nap! And cleaned the apartment, took down the extra bed, etc. Then, we went knocking. And, we found 2 amazing new investigators! Their names are Peter and Skyler. They are amazing, and we are so excited to see them again!
Another little funny... We stopped by our investigator, Tonya, on Thursday. Now, last week her husband hurt his neck. He wasn't a fan of us, so we were told to stay away until he got better, then she'd keep meeting with us. So, what did we do? We went to McDonalds, bought a dozen fresh cookies, put them on a nice little plate, and took them to Tonya. She told us on Thursday that they were super impressed with our cooking skills... and that her husband was now a little more interested in learning more about our Church... So, moral of the story, McDs cookies can change hearts!! LOL!!
And Friday! We went knocking again, and found two more investigators! The first is Oswaldo. He was super cool, and he works at a Mexican restuarant. He didn't speak too much english, but enough that we could communicate. Then, Lucia! Lucia speaks... ONLY SPANISH! LOL! So I introduced us in the little Spanish I know, and told her we were missionaries... and she thought I was fluent. So, that was awkward. But, we managed! And we invited her to church, but she a family thing, but she promised to come next week!
So, then on Saturday we had get to know you district meeting! So much fun! Played some hotseat... It is supposed to be a get to know you game, but you usually end up getting asked something along the lines of "would you rather have toes for fingers or fingers for toes" but it is really fun!
The Sunday! We had branch council at 9 am, and then afterwards, we were rushing to head to our investigator Mike's house. BUT, surprise surprise, HE WAS SITTING IN THE CHAPEL!! He had come 20 minutes early, and everyone in the Branch was super awesome and talking to him. And he loved church! He isn't going to be able to come for the next couple of weeks because he is going to... UTAH!  He is going to all the parks and going hiking, and to Temple Square! He even said that he would try to go to church there! We are so excited for him!
I am stoked for this next transfer in Story City with the most amazing Sister Dalton! I have absolutely LOVED my mission, and I can see where I have improved in my life by being here! Sorry for the sappiness, but I realized on Saturday that I go home in 11 months! I feel like I just got to Iowa yesterday, so this is really weird, and I was talking to Sister Short on the phone a couple nights ago talking about it, and she goes home in December! Sometimes I still feel like Story City is a dream and that I am actually in Osceola with her...
Hope everyone else had a fantastic week as well!!

Monday, July 2, 2018

Transfer week!

This last week was the last week of the transfer, and possibly my last one in Story City :( As usual, I got transfer hints! The first I have yet to decipher, and it is 'stock'. No idea what that means. My second one, though, is a little better. It is 'awkward stage of life'. The initials of which are 'ASL'. And you may remember the amazing Hermana Weaver? She is fluent in ASL, so much so that she has been asked by the people who run the pageants in Nauvoo to sign for any deaf people who come. So, basically, I would be going to a pageant every night. Totes okay with that. But, I will not know for sure until tomorrow morning.
So, what happened this week in the fairytale land of Story Village? Well, we found the smallest town not on the map! It is called Garden City. Iowa has a terrible habit of misleading people. Just as Story City is much less than a real city, GC is the same. Our new investigator Doug informed us that it only has 75 people living in it! And Sister Rath, Sister Newman, and I knocked the whole of it. You can be proud. ;)
We also took an emergency trip to Des Moines! I love going to Des Moines. So, turns out that our new license had come! Which was good, because no one wants to drive around with an expired plate. And, in Elder Drummond's own words "If they pull you over and send you to jail, I am not bailing you out! You can rot in there for all I care." (He was joking, we hope haha!) We love Elder D. So, we went and had a lot of fun!

Our fab trio

So, remember how I said that Sister Dalton's boyfriend is a missionary, and we like to mimic his pictures? What I failed to mention is that he is a missionary... in the IDMM. So, he (Elder Clayson) and his comp (Elder Brown) Were there when we were. Complete coincidence! So, when they posed for this picture, we of course had to copy it because it looked so punk.



Then, on Saturday we went back to the member who likes to play apples to apples. So, the rule is is that whatever green cards you have, that describes your future spouse. Last time I got 'chubby, disgusting, and smelly'. This time I did a little better XD


On Sunday, we had church. So, branches are already super small. And, on the Fourth of July week, even less people come. So, no joke, 35 people were at church, including us. LET'S GO IOWA!!!!  It was so weird, because we usually get about 60-70.

We had our last district meeting as the Ames district this week! Three of our lovely missionaries are dying - District leader Elder Esplin, Zone Leader Elder Davis, and Sister Training Leader Sister Garrard. So, we took the death photo.

​in the chairs - Elder Davis, Sister Garrard, Elder Esplin
standing behind, Elder Fox, Elder Thomas, me, Sister Dalton, Sister Newman, Sister Rath, Elder Ostergaard, and Elder Westover.

But that is about it! I will let y'all know about transfers tomorrow! Happy 4th of July!!